{"id":8139,"date":"2017-06-30T09:31:01","date_gmt":"2017-06-30T16:31:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.culturaltravelmyth.com\/en-us\/story\/how-to-break-up-the-annoying-neighbor"},"modified":"2019-02-11T11:45:37","modified_gmt":"2019-02-11T19:45:37","slug":"how-to-break-up-the-annoying-neighbor","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.culturaltravelmyth.com\/en-us\/story\/how-to-break-up-the-annoying-neighbor","title":{"rendered":"How to Break Up: The Annoying Neighbor"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><em>Declarar su independencia de algunas personas en su vida es fácil. ¿Ese amigo de la infancia que quiere mantenerse al día con usted en Facebook? Deje de seguirlo y elimine su número. ¿No está satisfecho con su peluquero? Vaya a una tienda diferente. Pero otras personas en su vidapuede ser más difícil. Por\u00a0ejemplo\u2026<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Tu vecino ajeno a los límites: claro, es bueno que sea amigable, pero ¿y si lo es?<em> también<\/em> ¿amigable? Apariciones no invitadas, solicitudes de favores, pedir cosas prestadas constantemente, invitándote sin descanso a noches de póquer con sus igualmente irritantes amigos. A veces, solo quieres vivir en algún lugar sin tener que ser mejor amigo de la persona que tienes al lado.<\/p>\n<p>Sin embargo, si tu vecino se vuelve contra ti, podrías experimentar décadas de incomodidad, por lo que, para obtener orientación sobre cómo deshacerte de la plaga sin las consecuencias, recurrimos a <a href=\"https:\/\/www.shastanelson.com\/\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer \"> Shasta Nelson<\/a>, experto en amistad y autor de <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Frientimacy-Deepen-Friendships-Lifelong-Happiness\/dp\/1580056075\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer \"><em> amistad<\/em><\/a> y <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Friendships-Dont-Just-Happen-GirlFriends\/dp\/1618580140\" target=\"_blank\" rel=\"noopener noreferrer \"><em>¡Las amistades no solo suceden!<\/em><\/a><\/p>\n<p>Ella advierte que si quieres que tu relación con tu vecino sea cortés pero no demasiado familiar, requiere un poco de delicadeza. Con relaciones como esta, explica, \u201cNo podemos romper con ellos por completo.como pasar por un divorcio si tienes hijos\u200a\u2014\u200aaún tienes algo que te mantiene unido. En última instancia, lo que estamos tratando de lograr es una relación positiva con buenos límites.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>Como escribió sabiamente el poeta Robert Frost, \u201cBuenas cercas hacen buenos vecinos.\u201d Pero mientras <em>él<\/em> sabía que los límites son importantes, los malos vecinos nunca parecen entender esto. Nelson recomienda crear límites más claros disminuyendo la cantidad de tiempo que pasas con ellos y limitando tu interacción, especialmente en términos de lo que compartestú mismo.<\/p>\n<p>En su lugar, dice, mantén las cosas educadas pero firmes. Si aparecen en tu puerta sin una buena razón, es fácil y aceptable decir, \u201cLo siento, ahora no es un buen momento\u201d.siga esto con un comentario positivo, como hacerles saber que \u201ci\u2019s genial tener un vecino amigable,\u201d antes de ofrecer una alternativa: Dígales que funciona mejor para usted si le envían un mensaje de texto o un correo electrónico primero la próxima vez, en lugar deque aparecer sin previo aviso. Su comportamiento no cambiará de la noche a la mañana, pero si repites el mensaje con la suficiente frecuencia y lo haces constantemente, llegarán a respetar tu privacidad sin tomarla como algo personal.u00a0desaire.<\/p>\n<p>También es vital recordar la proporción de relación de cinco a uno. \u201cSabemos por investigaciones que todas las relaciones saludables tienen una proporción de cinco [interacciones] positivas a una negativa,\u201d dice Nelson. \u201cCuando comienza esa proporciónal caer, las cosas se amplifican.\u201d Entonces, un saludo, una sonrisa, un hola, un \u201c¡Bonito césped, hombre!\u201d son todos aspectos positivos que no requieren mucho, y se suman rápida y fácilmente, lo que hace que sea negativo\u200a\u2014\u200acreando cierta distancia entre ustedes\u200a\u2014\u200más fácil de tragar.<\/p>\n<p>Será una relación difícil de mantener al principio, pero vale la pena. Y todo es más fácil que mudarse, ¿no?<\/p>\n","protegido":falso},"extracto":{"renderizado":"<p>Reivindicar tu independencia de algunas personas en tu vida es fácil. ¿Ese amigo de la infancia que quiere mantenerse al día contigo en Facebook? 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